Matt Dixon Posted 30 October , 2003 Share Posted 30 October , 2003 In many CWGC cemeteries I have noticed pebbles have been placed on the top of jewish headstones. Why? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris_Baker Posted 30 October , 2003 Share Posted 30 October , 2003 Matt, we've had some discussion about this before ... click here ... it's an old custom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gem22 Posted 31 October , 2003 Share Posted 31 October , 2003 Matt just so you know, I'm one of the people who puts pebbles on headstones of the Jewish dead. I've never seen the film that is referred to, and neither am I Jewish, but I learnt about the custom many years ago. I think it's a lovely simple way to show someone is remembered, or respected, for what they did. Another custom I have seen in recent times that applies mainly to WW2 is for Canadian visitors to place coins on the headstone, usually quarters. Garth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul K Posted 31 October , 2003 Share Posted 31 October , 2003 Im one of those Canadians that put coins on top of headstones. I heard about people doing it and I think its an excellant way to show that they are remembered and have been visited by another Canadian who appreciates and won't forget their sacrifice. It also shows other visitors that Canadains still visit their fallen heroes. Paul K Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muerrisch Posted 31 October , 2003 Share Posted 31 October , 2003 I am a [practising, not notional] Christian who also puts pebbles on Jewish headstones. It came about this way: Some years ago there was a wave of anti-semitism in CWGC sites in F&F. Shortly after, I ran a minibus of friends to those areas, and one remarked on the pebbles. We added two and two, got five, and assumed the pebbles were markers for subsequent vandalism. So swept all the pebbles away. I boasted of this act of charity and goodness when I got home and was mortified by the correct explanation. So, wherever I see a Jewish headstone, I place a pebble, say sorry, and say a prayer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Ian Bowbrick Posted 31 October , 2003 Share Posted 31 October , 2003 The laying of stones on headstones or graves is a sign of respect that dates back many centuries. You do not have to be Jewish to lay a stone, so next time you see a headstone adorned as such show your respect by doing this simple act. Ian Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom Morgan Posted 31 October , 2003 Share Posted 31 October , 2003 A delightful explanation given to me by a Jewish teacher not long ago (although it only adds a little to what has already been said) is that the practice dates back to ancient times, when new graves were often covered with a heavy layer of stones to discourage wild animals from digging. Travellers who came upon such a grave later could do a small service to the memory of the buried person by ensuring that the stone covering was still substantial and neatly in place, either by replacing any fallen stones or by bringing new ones. So the placing of stones had a practical as well as a memorial purpose. The teacher told me, "Jewish people place stones for remembrance, just as Christians place flowers." Tom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michaeldr Posted 1 November , 2003 Share Posted 1 November , 2003 I'm inclined to agree with your Jewish teacher, Tom. Especially as we're talking about a culture which developed in a dessert region, or at best an area of rocky hills with a shallow soil strata and an abundance of stones Regards Michael D.R. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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